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Ruby Rare

Sx educator + writer
Intimacy Expert for @feeldco
I ❤️ all things spicy/weird/historical/queer
👇🏼The Non-Monogamy Playbook 📕

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Book 2 bb!!! I’m so excited to share this with you! The Non-Monogamy Playbook is out 30th January 2025, you can pre-order it now (link is in my b1o) 🩷❤️💜 please pre-order it I will love u 5eva. Right here’s a bit about the what to expect:

Weaving between practical guidance, theory, and personal stories, in this book I probe the long history of relationship rules, looking with curiosity at why society still favours monogamous, heteronormative frameworks, and what lies beyond them.

The Non-Monogamy Playbook not only covers the how-tos, but also the whys, and the what-ifs. If you’re curious to do things differently, or take a look at love from a fresh perspective, you’re in the right place ⭐️

I’m really bloody proud of this, it’s a decade in the making and I got very emotional recording the audiobook this week cos I got to sit with just how much time, care, and love I’ve poured into it 🥰 also feeling QUITE NERVOUS about shifting into promo mode - I love writing and working on longer-form projects, but tend to panic and go into my shell as soon as it’s time to share them with the world - not ideal. Really gonna try and shout about this as much as I can tho, because I am genuinely so so proud of it, and curious to see what readers think, so please bear with me as this page becomes quite book heavy over the next couple months.

Thank you to all the lovely babes at @eburyselfbooks + @penguinukbooks, and to @paulcbrunson for providing the cover for quote 🩷 there’s more quotes I’ll share soon, everyone who’s read it so far has been so kind and I basically can’t stop crying every time someone says something nice to me 🙃

#nonfiction #coverreveal #nonmonogamy #polyamorous #openrelationship #relationshipadvice #ukbookstagram #author #lovelife


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Over the moon with these tiny babes 🍓


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@feeldco’s report State of Reflections (SOR) Vol. 2 is out now! One of my big takeaways after reading is this idea of impression management, how we consciously or subconsciously present ourselves in online spaces. Would love to hear your thoughts on this in the comments.

The SOR report shows Reflections is helping Feeld members develop clearer language around desire, intimacy, sexual safety, and boundaries,empowering them to date more intentionally.

❤️‍🔥 67% of respondents reported more interest in discussing desires.
❤️‍🔥 58% reported they are more aware of what they are seeking from connections.
❤️‍🔥 72% have changed or considered changing how they communicate desires on their Feeld profiles.

It’s been made with a lot of care, and it’s not about presenting us with brand new information about ourselves, rather it’s helping bring us out of our shell, affirming things that have always been there, and giving us better language to express it. If you’ve not tried it yet, give it a go.


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Vampire ball for the spookiest 30 year old around 🦇🏰🖤 having a sibling as incredible as @maxthings__ is the best thing ever. Endlessly proud of how weird and creative they are, building a home together is so special, and I can’t wait for what this decade has in store for them. Also I strongly believe we should have Halloween at least twice a year but ideally once a quarter, dress up as vampires with your mates it’s the best. And BOOK A SURPRISE MAGICIAN FOR BIRTHDAY PARTIES @rosannalloyd + @mollymckeag knocked it out the park - @guy.wade was incredible strong recommend 🪄


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Perhaps my greatest garden achievement yet 🏰 be warned hence forth if you dare to cross me it’ll be straight in the stocks with ya


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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Gonorrhoea vaccine info for you! It’s so bloody exciting this was rolled out last year, but there’s still a lot of misinformation (or simply lack of information) out there, so I hope this is useful bbs 😘 and worth flagging that similar to the PrEP rollouts a decade ago, we’re at the beginning of this, so healthcare providers are having to prioritise those who are at greater risk of transmitting gonorrhoea. Really hopeful that as more evidence comes in the vaccine will become more widely available for everyone.

Very grateful to have worked with @thelovetankcic @benvyle @idiosyncraticxl on this, massive fan of their work and I learn so much whenever I step into queer mens (GBMSM) healthcare spaces - truly the gold standard for s xual health. For more info on this and many other topics head to their website x


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LADY🤌🏼ER STICKERS!!!! 10 years in and I’ve finally made some merch haha. Selling them (and the zine) at @lezzerfest and tomorrow 3-8pm, me and @spikesfordykes are sharing a table, come say hi!!

I will get an online shop sorted at some point but won’t lie am being spectacularly unorganised about it atm, so if you’re hungry for stickers get down to Vauxhall tomorrow! The day’s almost sold out and I’m v v excited for it 🥰 p.s guess what my sign says (last slide) correct answers will get a silly little prize xx


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LADY🤌🏼ER STICKERS!!!! 10 years in and I’ve finally made some merch haha. Selling them (and the zine) at @lezzerfest and tomorrow 3-8pm, me and @spikesfordykes are sharing a table, come say hi!!

I will get an online shop sorted at some point but won’t lie am being spectacularly unorganised about it atm, so if you’re hungry for stickers get down to Vauxhall tomorrow! The day’s almost sold out and I’m v v excited for it 🥰 p.s guess what my sign says (last slide) correct answers will get a silly little prize xx


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LADY🤌🏼ER STICKERS!!!! 10 years in and I’ve finally made some merch haha. Selling them (and the zine) at @lezzerfest and tomorrow 3-8pm, me and @spikesfordykes are sharing a table, come say hi!!

I will get an online shop sorted at some point but won’t lie am being spectacularly unorganised about it atm, so if you’re hungry for stickers get down to Vauxhall tomorrow! The day’s almost sold out and I’m v v excited for it 🥰 p.s guess what my sign says (last slide) correct answers will get a silly little prize xx


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LADY🤌🏼ER STICKERS!!!! 10 years in and I’ve finally made some merch haha. Selling them (and the zine) at @lezzerfest and tomorrow 3-8pm, me and @spikesfordykes are sharing a table, come say hi!!

I will get an online shop sorted at some point but won’t lie am being spectacularly unorganised about it atm, so if you’re hungry for stickers get down to Vauxhall tomorrow! The day’s almost sold out and I’m v v excited for it 🥰 p.s guess what my sign says (last slide) correct answers will get a silly little prize xx


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LADY🤌🏼ER STICKERS!!!! 10 years in and I’ve finally made some merch haha. Selling them (and the zine) at @lezzerfest and tomorrow 3-8pm, me and @spikesfordykes are sharing a table, come say hi!!

I will get an online shop sorted at some point but won’t lie am being spectacularly unorganised about it atm, so if you’re hungry for stickers get down to Vauxhall tomorrow! The day’s almost sold out and I’m v v excited for it 🥰 p.s guess what my sign says (last slide) correct answers will get a silly little prize xx


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LADY🤌🏼ER STICKERS!!!! 10 years in and I’ve finally made some merch haha. Selling them (and the zine) at @lezzerfest and tomorrow 3-8pm, me and @spikesfordykes are sharing a table, come say hi!!

I will get an online shop sorted at some point but won’t lie am being spectacularly unorganised about it atm, so if you’re hungry for stickers get down to Vauxhall tomorrow! The day’s almost sold out and I’m v v excited for it 🥰 p.s guess what my sign says (last slide) correct answers will get a silly little prize xx


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An honour to be included in the @divamagazine power list!!! ❤️


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Oh I am so bloody chuffed about this 🫜


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Some v v chill vibes to kick off #lesbianvisibilityweek ❤️‍🔥 what a joy to be a sapphic babe


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Some v v chill vibes to kick off #lesbianvisibilityweek ❤️‍🔥 what a joy to be a sapphic babe


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1 months ago

One-sided monogamy - what are your thoughts? To me what we saw in the #manosphere doc feels culturally very different to mono-polyam setups, which I wrote about in my book and can and do work really well for people! But my main frustration is that this is nothing new, rich arseholes have been doing it for centuries, and now podcasters are at it too


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