TOLU | CHRISTIAN DATING COACH
I help Christian women get married and stay happily married 👰🏾
Clients💍
Work with me 1-1 to get married in a year and stay happily married for life👇🏾

𝗪𝐄𝐋𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐓𝐇𝐄 @fantheflame 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐔𝐍𝐈𝐓𝐘 🔥
I’m Tolu: your friendly Christian Dating Coach. I help Christian single women meet and marry their husbands 💍
I’ve been doing this for 9 yrs and counting
So here’s a bit about me 👇🏾
I like to keep godly dating practical and relatable.
I’m not perfect- I like to keep things 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥- so Ishare 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐢𝐩𝐬 to help you date the man God has called you to marry
I’m very curious and tend to ask a ton of questions - my clients and friends can testify lol
I’m the founder of the Dating To Marry Program where I show clients exactly how to get into the right relationship leading to marriage in a year 💍
I’m also the founder of the Wife In Waiting Group Coaching Program @wiwtribe where I show clients how to go on quality dates leading to a healthy relationship in 90 days 🔥
I’ve helped my clients meet, date and marry their husbands all within a year 🔥 💍
I love animals - my favorite are dogs 🐕
I enjoy exercise and love to stay fit since I love food 😋
I have 3 tattoos ✍🏾
I’m social and enjoy going out with my friends and turning up 🔥
I love getting dressed and looking good 💄
I take my relationship with God 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲 and I love Him because He saved me after I lost my brother Toba ❤️
I have a tiny temper 🌚 but God is working me through it lol
I share here what He shares with me on dating 𝐚𝐧𝐝 marriage
I specialize in showing you 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 to marriage 🔥
I’d love to meet you 🤗
Please share below:
How you found my page
What you hope to learn here and
One unique fact about you (I’m curious 😉)
𝐏𝐒: 𝐓𝐚𝐠 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐭’𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲 💍
#datingtomarry #thetruthwithtolu
EMOTIONS ARE FICKLE AND THEY CHANGE
I sat down with @damiamodu on @onherownlane to share on how emotions sabotage the dating process
You can listen on YouTube and leave a comment and subscribe!
Channel: On Her Own Lane

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

Catchup on the latest episode of THE POD SEASON3! 🎙️
A conversation with @fantheflame on what it really takes to build your relationship- . From identifying toxic dating cycles to the internal healing required to attract an aligned, commitment-ready partner—this season is about building differently.
We’re talking about:
• Waiting longer than planned
• Divorce stigma
• Aggressive men
• Settling vs standards
• Married but struggling
• Courage to choose peace
This one is not surface-level.
Tag a woman who needs this.
Click on bio to watch Full episode now on YouTube 🚨

WIFE IN WAITING CLOSES ITS DOORS IN 3 HOURS 🕰️
Link is in bio and first tab ☝🏾
YOU’RE NOT DATING FOR MARRIAGE
The men you attract are a reflection of the kind of men you have the capacity to date
This is why inside the Wife In Waiting Program you learn how to have the EMOTIONAL CAPACITY to date your husband
Wife In Waiting is my 6 month Group Coaching Program that shows single Christian women over 30 how to get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year
Link is in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
WIFE IN WAITING CLOSES TODAY
This Program is for Christian single women over 30 that are ready to get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year
You can work with me in the Program by applying via the link in bio and first tab ☝🏾
Every year we have had engagements and marriages through Wife In Waiting
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM
Doors close tonight
WIFE IN WAITING IS FOR THE HEART BROKEN WOMAN
I had a conversation with our Wife In Waiting Sister Theresa where she shares how the Program has helped her and why Wife In Waiting is designed to show you your worth
You learn to DROP YOUR HANDKERCHIEF ie how to get a man’s attention without talking or feeling vulnerable
Wife In Waiting guides you on how to do this and build the right connection that will lead to your marriage
We close our doors in 24 hours
Link is in bio and first tab to apply ☝🏾
Questions about Wife In Waiting?
Send me a DM
WHEN YOU MOVED ABROAD - YOUR DATING LIFE HAS BECOME A MESS
You’re not meeting men and you don’t have any social life
You’re not sure where to start or what to do
You’re not familiar with what’s expected in your current environment or where to socialize
Wife In Waiting is designed to walk and work with you through the dating process to meet your husband
You’ll learn how to date and who to date in your city and how to meet your husband even if you are in a foreign country and don’t know anyone
The Program is open for another 24 hours and then we close our doors
It is designed to Christian single women over 30 that want to get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year
Link is in bio and first tab to apply ☝🏾
You can join with the full plan and get 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on the payment plan monthly
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM

HOW MY CLIENT MET HER HUSBAND IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS 👉🏾
My client joined Wife In Waiting to finally date her husband
She had met multiple flaky men but no men with genuine intentions
When she joined Wife In Waiting I created a dating plan for her to get her visible to her husband
She deployed the plan and met her husband in less than 6 months of the Program 💍
Simply using the DATING PLAN I shared with her in Wife In Waiting got her in front of her husband
And it’ll work for you too even if you haven’t ever been in a relationship - just like my client here
You can join Wife In Waiting for the full 6 months with 1-1 coaching calls monthly or on a monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply for Wife In Waiting ☝🏾
Doors close tomorrow
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM
YOU KNOW THERE IS A SPIRITUAL BLOCKAGE OVER YOUR MARRIAGE
But you don’t know where it came from or how to remove it
This is why we have the Wife In Waiting Prayer Calls
These Prayer Calls take place monthly inside the Wife In Waiting Program
Wife In Waiting is my 6 month Group Coaching Program that shows single Christian women over 30 how to get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year
Wife In Waiting sisters have received revelation through the power of corporate prayer that takes place in the sisterhood of the Wife In Waiting Program
We close our doors tomorrow ⏰
You can join with the full investment for 6 months which comes with 1-1 coaching or on the monthly payment plan
Click the link in bio and first tab to apply to join ☝🏾
Questions about Wife In Waiting? Send me a DM
How I Started Leading Women To Marriage
I sat down with @onherownlane to share on what it means to date for marriage as a Christian single woman
Especially when you have been waiting for decades
The Wife In Waiting Program is Spirit breathed with practical takes on how to evaluate men so you can connect with your husband
Watch the full episode on @onherownlane
Wife In Waiting is open - we close our doors tomorrow
Link is in bio and first tab to apply ☝🏾
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