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Up next: @toepress brings you a weekend Zine Club across two workshops ✂️📚

Friday night - join us for a photography scavenger hunt, followed by collaging and creating a collective publication using your images gathered throughout the evening.

Sunday - learn the principles of three-hole zine binding, experiment with different zine-making techniques, or simply drop into our open collage space to decorate and customize your creations.

Come make, grab a pint, hang out, and leave with something of your own✨

Up next: @toepress brings you a weekend Zine Club across two workshops ✂️📚

Friday night - join us for a photography scavenger hunt, followed by collaging and creating a collective publication using your images gathered throughout the evening.

Sunday - learn the principles of three-hole zine binding, experiment with different zine-making techniques, or simply drop into our open collage space to decorate and customize your creations.

Come make, grab a pint, hang out, and leave with something of your own✨

Up next: @toepress brings you a weekend Zine Club across two workshops ✂️📚

Friday night - join us for a photography scavenger hunt, followed by collaging and creating a collective publication using your images gathered throughout the evening.

Sunday - learn the principles of three-hole zine binding, experiment with different zine-making techniques, or simply drop into our open collage space to decorate and customize your creations.

Come make, grab a pint, hang out, and leave with something of your own✨

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

Softer Harder, a performance night & private viewing… in the dark ?!?

A massive thank you to everyone who came to our event last week, each and everyone one of you made the night extremely special. Definitely one we won’t be forgetting soon!

Special shout out to: @teeeezoviich, @daisycarina____ , @luvsbrn, @absolutely_relentless, @spaceflop & @_femmedetta for making us reminisce, cry & laugh out LOUD with your stunning words & of course the incredible exhibiting artists @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_as well as co curator, exhibiting artist & Wonder Woman @aaronybailey 💌

Gallery Director: @thereturnofshe
📸: @wilfmerson

A conversation with the co-curator @aaronybailey of Softer Harder @aaronybailey on intimacy, and the personal language she’s built through photography.

Tonight, all roads lead to @set.stage.galleryfor an evening of performance and art by @aaronybailey herself, @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_ 💌

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📸: @macreadym
Direction/edit: @thereturnofshe

A conversation with the co-curator @aaronybailey of Softer Harder @aaronybailey on intimacy, and the personal language she’s built through photography.

Tonight, all roads lead to @set.stage.galleryfor an evening of performance and art by @aaronybailey herself, @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_ 💌

2/2

📸: @macreadym
Direction/edit: @thereturnofshe

A conversation with the co-curator @aaronybailey of Softer Harder @aaronybailey on intimacy, and the personal language she’s built through photography.

Tonight, all roads lead to @set.stage.galleryfor an evening of performance and art by @aaronybailey herself, @charliehenzi & @lily_bunney_ 💌

2/2

📸: @macreadym
Direction/edit: @thereturnofshe

Softer Harder at @set.stage.gallery is officially sold out!

Ahead of the night, I spoke with the co-curator @aaronybaileyStarting with her roots in photography, digital girlhood, desire, and the spaces that shaped us.

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📸: @macreadym
Direction/edit: @thereturnofshe

Softer Harder at @set.stage.gallery is officially sold out!

Ahead of the night, I spoke with the co-curator @aaronybaileyStarting with her roots in photography, digital girlhood, desire, and the spaces that shaped us.

1/2

📸: @macreadym
Direction/edit: @thereturnofshe

Softer Harder at @set.stage.gallery is officially sold out!

Ahead of the night, I spoke with the co-curator @aaronybaileyStarting with her roots in photography, digital girlhood, desire, and the spaces that shaped us.

1/2

📸: @macreadym
Direction/edit: @thereturnofshe

Only a few tickets left - hope to see you there 🤍

Softer Harder is a performance night and exhibition examining female sexuality, lust, and desire.

Stage Gallery, SET Social Peckham
🗓 Fri 17 April | 18:00–22:00 (Opening Night )
Ends: Sun 19th April
🎟 £5-9

Tickets linked in bio
📸: @macreadym
@aaronybailey 💕

Blending diary, essay, and late-night confession, Fopé writes on sex, intimacy, and belonging, mapping the emotional textures of queer life, with work featuring in Dazed, The FACE, i-D, Stylist, and The Guardian.

For Softer Harder, they revisit a piece from lockdown, where the absence of touch sharpened desire, and longing became impossible to ignore.

Limited tickets left via the link in bio 🔗

Blending diary, essay, and late-night confession, Fopé writes on sex, intimacy, and belonging, mapping the emotional textures of queer life, with work featuring in Dazed, The FACE, i-D, Stylist, and The Guardian.

For Softer Harder, they revisit a piece from lockdown, where the absence of touch sharpened desire, and longing became impossible to ignore.

Limited tickets left via the link in bio 🔗

Blending diary, essay, and late-night confession, Fopé writes on sex, intimacy, and belonging, mapping the emotional textures of queer life, with work featuring in Dazed, The FACE, i-D, Stylist, and The Guardian.

For Softer Harder, they revisit a piece from lockdown, where the absence of touch sharpened desire, and longing became impossible to ignore.

Limited tickets left via the link in bio 🔗

Sabirin Osoble (@luvsbrn)is a London-based poet and multidisciplinary artist, weaving storytelling with themes of identity, culture, community, and love.

At Softer Harder, she shares a piece on the blossoming of identity Exploring what it means to hold multiple selves, to grow, and to understand yourself through others. Rooted in nature, the work searches for meaning in connection.

(Slide 1 excerpt from Sabirin’s substack piece “When they ask me poetry, I will not write a line” @luvsbrn )

Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Sabirin Osoble (@luvsbrn)is a London-based poet and multidisciplinary artist, weaving storytelling with themes of identity, culture, community, and love.

At Softer Harder, she shares a piece on the blossoming of identity Exploring what it means to hold multiple selves, to grow, and to understand yourself through others. Rooted in nature, the work searches for meaning in connection.

(Slide 1 excerpt from Sabirin’s substack piece “When they ask me poetry, I will not write a line” @luvsbrn )

Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Tara Bauković (@teeeezoviich) is a London-based writer of autofiction and creative non-fiction, exploring desire, heritage, and identity through bold, lyrical language.

At Softer Harder, Tara shares a tragicomic story of losing their virginity in the age of dating apps and Snapchat, unpacking online disconnect, the pressure to perform sexual independence, and how we shape ourselves for male attention.
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Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Tara Bauković (@teeeezoviich) is a London-based writer of autofiction and creative non-fiction, exploring desire, heritage, and identity through bold, lyrical language.

At Softer Harder, Tara shares a tragicomic story of losing their virginity in the age of dating apps and Snapchat, unpacking online disconnect, the pressure to perform sexual independence, and how we shape ourselves for male attention.
.
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Tara Bauković (@teeeezoviich) is a London-based writer of autofiction and creative non-fiction, exploring desire, heritage, and identity through bold, lyrical language.

At Softer Harder, Tara shares a tragicomic story of losing their virginity in the age of dating apps and Snapchat, unpacking online disconnect, the pressure to perform sexual independence, and how we shape ourselves for male attention.
.
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Tara Bauković (@teeeezoviich) is a London-based writer of autofiction and creative non-fiction, exploring desire, heritage, and identity through bold, lyrical language.

At Softer Harder, Tara shares a tragicomic story of losing their virginity in the age of dating apps and Snapchat, unpacking online disconnect, the pressure to perform sexual independence, and how we shape ourselves for male attention.
.
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Maricel (@maricels.space) is a multimedia artist working between the US and UK, exploring digital identity and the ways technology shapes culture.
For Softer Harder, she presents a personal essay on how early online “safe spaces” gave young girls freedom to explore sexuality and identity. Drawing on her own experience alongside thinkers like Laura Mulvey, Donna Haraway, and Judith Butler, the work is both intimate and critically sharp.

Performed by @_femmedetta
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Maricel (@maricels.space) is a multimedia artist working between the US and UK, exploring digital identity and the ways technology shapes culture.
For Softer Harder, she presents a personal essay on how early online “safe spaces” gave young girls freedom to explore sexuality and identity. Drawing on her own experience alongside thinkers like Laura Mulvey, Donna Haraway, and Judith Butler, the work is both intimate and critically sharp.

Performed by @_femmedetta
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Maricel (@maricels.space) is a multimedia artist working between the US and UK, exploring digital identity and the ways technology shapes culture.
For Softer Harder, she presents a personal essay on how early online “safe spaces” gave young girls freedom to explore sexuality and identity. Drawing on her own experience alongside thinkers like Laura Mulvey, Donna Haraway, and Judith Butler, the work is both intimate and critically sharp.

Performed by @_femmedetta
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Maricel (@maricels.space) is a multimedia artist working between the US and UK, exploring digital identity and the ways technology shapes culture.
For Softer Harder, she presents a personal essay on how early online “safe spaces” gave young girls freedom to explore sexuality and identity. Drawing on her own experience alongside thinkers like Laura Mulvey, Donna Haraway, and Judith Butler, the work is both intimate and critically sharp.

Performed by @_femmedetta
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Maricel (@maricels.space) is a multimedia artist working between the US and UK, exploring digital identity and the ways technology shapes culture.
For Softer Harder, she presents a personal essay on how early online “safe spaces” gave young girls freedom to explore sexuality and identity. Drawing on her own experience alongside thinkers like Laura Mulvey, Donna Haraway, and Judith Butler, the work is both intimate and critically sharp.

Performed by @_femmedetta
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Maricel (@maricels.space) is a multimedia artist working between the US and UK, exploring digital identity and the ways technology shapes culture.
For Softer Harder, she presents a personal essay on how early online “safe spaces” gave young girls freedom to explore sexuality and identity. Drawing on her own experience alongside thinkers like Laura Mulvey, Donna Haraway, and Judith Butler, the work is both intimate and critically sharp.

Performed by @_femmedetta
Get your tickets via the link in bio 🔗

Chloe Borthwick (@absolutely_relentless) is a London-based comedy writer and performer in drag, film, stand-up, and sketch. She was recently a finalist of LIPSYNC1000, performing her infamous impersonation of Justin Bieber. She makes shot-for-shot remakes of film scenes and music videos with long-term collaborator, Meg Hodgson. And she writes a monthly newsletter on Substack (UNCALLED-FOR), where her piece for Softer/Harder was born.
A chilling account of using a Nokia 7610 to film herself masturbating for the first time, My First Orgasm (and other films) plays out every final detail, weaving in and out of the popular memories and influences that informed the act.

Chloe Borthwick (@absolutely_relentless) is a London-based comedy writer and performer in drag, film, stand-up, and sketch. She was recently a finalist of LIPSYNC1000, performing her infamous impersonation of Justin Bieber. She makes shot-for-shot remakes of film scenes and music videos with long-term collaborator, Meg Hodgson. And she writes a monthly newsletter on Substack (UNCALLED-FOR), where her piece for Softer/Harder was born.
A chilling account of using a Nokia 7610 to film herself masturbating for the first time, My First Orgasm (and other films) plays out every final detail, weaving in and out of the popular memories and influences that informed the act.

Chloe Borthwick (@absolutely_relentless) is a London-based comedy writer and performer in drag, film, stand-up, and sketch. She was recently a finalist of LIPSYNC1000, performing her infamous impersonation of Justin Bieber. She makes shot-for-shot remakes of film scenes and music videos with long-term collaborator, Meg Hodgson. And she writes a monthly newsletter on Substack (UNCALLED-FOR), where her piece for Softer/Harder was born.
A chilling account of using a Nokia 7610 to film herself masturbating for the first time, My First Orgasm (and other films) plays out every final detail, weaving in and out of the popular memories and influences that informed the act.

Chloe Borthwick (@absolutely_relentless) is a London-based comedy writer and performer in drag, film, stand-up, and sketch. She was recently a finalist of LIPSYNC1000, performing her infamous impersonation of Justin Bieber. She makes shot-for-shot remakes of film scenes and music videos with long-term collaborator, Meg Hodgson. And she writes a monthly newsletter on Substack (UNCALLED-FOR), where her piece for Softer/Harder was born.
A chilling account of using a Nokia 7610 to film herself masturbating for the first time, My First Orgasm (and other films) plays out every final detail, weaving in and out of the popular memories and influences that informed the act.

Chloe Borthwick (@absolutely_relentless) is a London-based comedy writer and performer in drag, film, stand-up, and sketch. She was recently a finalist of LIPSYNC1000, performing her infamous impersonation of Justin Bieber. She makes shot-for-shot remakes of film scenes and music videos with long-term collaborator, Meg Hodgson. And she writes a monthly newsletter on Substack (UNCALLED-FOR), where her piece for Softer/Harder was born.
A chilling account of using a Nokia 7610 to film herself masturbating for the first time, My First Orgasm (and other films) plays out every final detail, weaving in and out of the popular memories and influences that informed the act.

@daisycarina____ has been writing poetry since childhood, shaped by the empowering voices of Mary Oliver, Christina Rossetti and Maya Angelou; giving rhythm and voice to her lived experience.

For Softer Harder, she reflects on coming of age in the “wild west” of early internet where curiosity, desire, and danger all intertwined. Her piece unpacks digital girlhood, predatory encounters, and the messy reality of discovering sexual identity online.

Get your tickets today via the link in bio 🔗

@daisycarina____ has been writing poetry since childhood, shaped by the empowering voices of Mary Oliver, Christina Rossetti and Maya Angelou; giving rhythm and voice to her lived experience.

For Softer Harder, she reflects on coming of age in the “wild west” of early internet where curiosity, desire, and danger all intertwined. Her piece unpacks digital girlhood, predatory encounters, and the messy reality of discovering sexual identity online.

Get your tickets today via the link in bio 🔗

@daisycarina____ has been writing poetry since childhood, shaped by the empowering voices of Mary Oliver, Christina Rossetti and Maya Angelou; giving rhythm and voice to her lived experience.

For Softer Harder, she reflects on coming of age in the “wild west” of early internet where curiosity, desire, and danger all intertwined. Her piece unpacks digital girlhood, predatory encounters, and the messy reality of discovering sexual identity online.

Get your tickets today via the link in bio 🔗

@daisycarina____ has been writing poetry since childhood, shaped by the empowering voices of Mary Oliver, Christina Rossetti and Maya Angelou; giving rhythm and voice to her lived experience.

For Softer Harder, she reflects on coming of age in the “wild west” of early internet where curiosity, desire, and danger all intertwined. Her piece unpacks digital girlhood, predatory encounters, and the messy reality of discovering sexual identity online.

Get your tickets today via the link in bio 🔗

Up Next: Softer Harder is a performance night and exhibition examining female sexuality, lust, and desire. ⭐️

The show will specifically be looking at female sexual identity within a digital context, looking at how women are
reclaiming their bodies and their sexualities in today’s tech-heavy climate. Inspired by the millennial and gen-z adolescence of spending nights on Omegle with friends, reading erotica on Wattpad, and reposting lewd gifs on Tumblr, the exhibition and performance night will be an intimate and humorous exploration of digital culture and sex.

Stage Gallery, SET Social Peckham
🗓 Fri 17 April | 18:00–22:00 (Opening Night )
Ends: Sun 19th April
🎟 £5-9

Tickets linked in bio 🤍🤍🤍

Cc: @aaronybailey
Directed by : @thereturnofshe

Up Next: Softer Harder is a performance night and exhibition examining female sexuality, lust, and desire. ⭐️

The show will specifically be looking at female sexual identity within a digital context, looking at how women are
reclaiming their bodies and their sexualities in today’s tech-heavy climate. Inspired by the millennial and gen-z adolescence of spending nights on Omegle with friends, reading erotica on Wattpad, and reposting lewd gifs on Tumblr, the exhibition and performance night will be an intimate and humorous exploration of digital culture and sex.

Stage Gallery, SET Social Peckham
🗓 Fri 17 April | 18:00–22:00 (Opening Night )
Ends: Sun 19th April
🎟 £5-9

Tickets linked in bio 🤍🤍🤍

Cc: @aaronybailey
Directed by : @thereturnofshe